The rhinos, while Xiao Xiniu resistance, the baby elephant and ride on its back to do that nasty action. In desperation, my mother had to run over rhino interference hh At this point, as the group leaders and came away not only listen The baby elephant.
Zhongxiang teachers to explain, said: thing, then when it grows to adulthood, may become one of the elephants are not welcome hh Although parents still alive, but less responsibility to do so, teachers or other adults, although the will to control their behavior, but who can replace the parents do?
However, just two days, this conclusion was overturned. a By chance I met a successful man, he was a Group President, under the command of the media, mainly in charge of several large companies. chitchat, he polished manners and witty conversation fascinated me, talked about success stories, he taught many of his admits life, and his management style is based more fine Sinology, so the industry referred to as the Confucian culture. However, his parents early in his divorce when she was seven years old, from primary school to university, very few adults bundle and you're not old, he basically is a person to live independently. He said that his academic performance has been good, although there have been fights and the lies of the experience, did not learn of his have too much influence. He said he grew he was one of more intelligent children, because looks weak, it is not easy to get involved, but has a commanding genius, he said he admired Zhuge Liang hh
may be due to normal too nervous, you'll feel a few glasses of wine, he relaxed a lot. He said he lived in a southern city, before and after school due to parents fighting, he often went to a small alley near the bookstore reading, there seems to have become his paradise: He can throw all the time during the day in a pile of books, although low levels of literacy, but the bookstore owner, a kindly retired teacher mm for his vividly tells the story of the book, but also taken the trouble to teach him to look up to read. So before and after the third grade, he had read the and the them.
the same time he admitted that, due to family alienation, led to his early love adolescent trauma and first marriage for divorce, but it may be premature exposure to the golden mean, he did not go too. but also because there is no experience the time of injury, unlike their peers, as can be returned to their parents, where he had no place to go, our only taste, the only way is to study the book plus accumulated experience.
conversation, his mind is very clear, logical clear, and many quote the classics, and have a wealth of experience to be evidence, see, he is confident and optimistic attitude, open-minded.
However, in the consultation process, more a lack of parental care due to an early age, particularly are people who have experienced parental separation, resulting in their life and work are more failures, so theories of psychology in the interpretation easier. So, why the Confucian culture on the In his own words the most easy to understand, he said, he read some psychology books, but he thinks cheaper than some of the same age accounted for two: First, parents are not involved in the breakdown of the marriage of his atmosphere. because parents fighting, he usually hide out, even if they do break up, their parents either did not take him as a hostage, do not say anything all day, Otherwise, you're sorry I hh He's growing up too little hint of parents, therefore resulting in the fetters of the process of growing small.
Second, and most importantly, those books, and The old teachers. He said that he is equal to private school early on the ground of the civil society, thanks to the ancients and the old teacher who learned the cultivation of basic skills. This greatly compensate for the lack of parental care and the resulting sense of loss, and he lay on the experience of a sense of belonging. he used from the book in particular, learned from a military counselor or a counselor to put things in the relationship between students, such as his be seen from the Three Kingdoms: Zhuge Liang for talented (studying) and powerful, while the strength of courage and loyalty alone is not necessarily a husband The final winner. coupled with his private school's background, so a good foundation, and therefore no pressure in the sense of the learning process, teachers and students because of homework to win the goodwill of good, and he further verified from the life of the school, and again succeeded , while no substitute for parental protection that he caused the fear of insecurity. then applied successfully in the growth process, within the law into his survival.
He also admits that she's alienated affection, the greatest dislike their love, not used to intersect with people too close, he admitted that with the background of their families.
to the story, we Qucuqujing, but it is not difficult to see that some parents in the education children, is not right too much? and emphasized children must obey the same time, have had their own experiences to reflect on some right for?
there are some parents of the Cold War, some of the children give up their choice, then this approach to real the child is okay? Confucius is also childhood death of his father, the mother is and get people to teach him, and he is by reading the , good guidance Liu Yong is also lost in the year-old father, his mother will never be tied around him, he is better educated talent in the hh
can post some parents nowadays are not too tired? tired of the expectations of their sustenance in the In children, the experience of many of them and related with that particular era, which was originally deformity, pathological. and children cope with school work, we must also be accountable to the expectations of parents, the dual pressures of children no time to go its own way, then it is bound to result in growing along with the internal friction of the self and I, this internal friction but also because of feelings of parents pulling their children into substandard and their emotional world, having a child too early to assume the role of small adults, which led to powerless.
, of course, no one is perfect, the lack of parental care of people naturally place their inferiority, the key is whether the person acquired the self-esteem into self-power, the bad become a good thing, this is a small man and the other end as the difference. so easy to see, as intelligent people, and the difference between all of the animals, that is the cultural heritage, if you make the best guidance, Without the loss of a child under the premise of the nature of these valuable asset not only outdated, but enough to make a person stronger, and thus can better serve the community. Bacon also verified that the full sentence: strength.
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